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If you already have all the money, peace, love, happiness and health in your life that you’d like to have then you’re probably already familiar with what follows.
If however there are some areas of your life that are not quite yet working the way you’d like them to, here’s the ABC (or rather, the CBA) to understanding why you may be missing out and how you change it.
And ... if you do want to discover more ... tap along as you read on:
C: CLARITY
We generally use a GPS or Satnav to guide us when we’re not sure how to get somewhere, either because the destination is new to us or because we’re lost. To effectively use a Satnav you need to know the destination, and that’s ALL you need to know.
You do NOT need to know where you are, how you got there, or why you got lost!
There’s a reason why a SatNav does not have a ‘Random Destination’ button … think about it…
Yet how often do you just ‘hope for the best’ that one day your problems will miraculously disappear (including those credit card bills or the job you’re stuck in), and the new car, house or partner will appear as if my magic?
If you are in that place of ‘hoping’ or just going through the motions of life, day by day, you may not like what I’m about to say, but it’s true anyway: not only is no-one coming to rescue you (nor can anyone rescue you), but even if you diligently continue to do the important work of healing the past, unless you become clear on where you want to be going, you’re very unlikely to ever end up there. (SatNav? Random destination?)
One of the things that’s probably getting in the way of you being clear on WHAT you want is that you don’t know HOW to get there, or that you don’t have the resources, the skill, the money or the time right now to get there.
The great news for you is that, as far as creating the life you want, knowing HOW is not relevant and here’s why:
You cannot now how (even if you think you do); the universe is simply too magic and connected for you work out all the details. In fact, trying to work out the ‘hows’ is a major cause of stress – which leads to feeling unwell, getting sick, unhappiness which if anything, takes you further away from your dreams; insisting on the ‘hows’ actually get in the way of your dreams manifesting!
Creating the life you want involves faith; faith in your own creative abilities and faith in the grace of a universe, God, Gaia, or whatever you prefer to call that ‘something’ that is bigger than you (if you believe in something bigger than you) who only wants for you what YOU want for you.
And before you can effectively communicate what you want to the universe, you have to first know what you want with absolute clarity and here’s how to do it.
Imagine it in the finest details – even if for a few minutes a day; imagine exactly what it would look like, smell like, taste like and ever important, what you would FEEL like if you had this in your life!
The more details, the better – just make sure you stay away from the ‘hows’ and stay focussed on the ‘what’!
All else being equal, the more familiar you become with that place of your dreams, the more you ‘live’ in them in your imagination, the more your vibration will change and the easier you’ll attract and create that very thing, person, place or experience.
TAPPING SUGGESTION:
Karate chop point 3 times: Even though I've not been clear on what I want, I deeply and completely love and accept myself anyway and choose to allow myself to knoe exactly what I want because I deserve it!
And then tap through all the other points...
- I don't know what I want
- I don't deserve what I want
- What do you mean, I get to choose?
- That's not what I was taught!
- What if it was OK for me to know what I want?
- What if I could give myself permission to know what I want?
- What if I could allow myself to know what I want?
- Choosing to give myself permission to think BIG!
- Allowing myself to dream
- Because that's the key to getting what I want
- I'm sure it cannot be that easy
- I'm sure it's not even possible to have waht I want, so what's the point
- Allowing myself to get clear on what I want
- Because it's the only way I'll ever get it
- And I deserve to get what I want
- Everyone does!
B: BELIEF
Unless you believe that you deserve happiness you’ll probably never be happy; certainly not in the long run.
Unless you believe that you are worthy of a loving relationship you’ll probably never have one that lasts.
Whilst you believe that it’s not spiritual to be financially free, or that it’s selfish, or that there isn’t enough for everyone, you probably never will be free.
Your beliefs are the main source of your thoughts, and thoughts turn into things.
Your beliefs also drive your emotions, which, combined with thoughts and imagination, are a major component of your creative powers and limiting beliefs (like “It’ll never happen to me”) often get in the way of you having CLARITY on what you want.
The problem with beliefs is that they are often (if not mostly) unconscious so you may not even be aware of them. On the other hand, the great thing about beliefs is that they are not right, wrong or real; they’re just beliefs and you can change the ones you don’t like and choose the ones you do like!
Commonly held beliefs like “I’m not good enough”, “I don’t have what it takes” or “I don’t belong” are a script for emotional and financial bankruptcy.
As within so without … if you’re not convinced about this saying, write down your beliefs about money, sex and relationships. Scan your life in these areas you’ll probably see that your life matches those beliefs 100%.
Creating and sustaining the life you want requires absolute belief that you CAN create whatever you desire. And like any other belief – you can install this.
If the outer world is a reflection of what’s on the inside (and it is), and you don’t like what you see in the outside world – then you may find it useful to explore your beliefs, and change the ones that need changing!
TAPPING SUGGESTION:
Karate chop 3 times: Even though I don't believe I deserve more I deeply and completely love and accept myself anyway and I'm open to a new idea!
Then tap through all the points:
- I don't deserve more
- It's not OK to want more
- It's selfish to want more
- It's not spiritual to want more
- There's not enough for everyone
- And going without is REALLY helping the other people that struggle
- I have to work hard for money
- It's not ok for me to want what I want
- I'm not worthy of having more
- What will people say?
- I'm not good enough to have what I want
- What if none of this was true?
- What if I was a perfectly deserving being?
- What if everyone was?
- What if I could allow myself to have more?
- What if the universe really was abundant, and I really created my own reality, and I really could create whatever I wanted?
- I'm sure that's not true, but WHAT IF it was true....?
A: ACTION
Most people think that taking action is what they have to do to create what you want when actually, taking action is the vehicle with which to receive that which you’ve have already created!
From an ancient Japanese saying, "Vision without action is a daydream. Action without a vision is a nightmare.”
Once you
• are clear on exactly what you want (CLARITY),
• clear up any beliefs that say you can’t or shouldn’t have it
• install beliefs that are aligned with where you want to be going
..then the next step is to start taking action. There’s more to it than this, but simply put, any action will do because “Imperfect action is better than perfect inaction.” (Harry Truman)
TAPPING:
Think about one action you know you can take, right now, to take you a step closer to your dreams.
Karate chop 3 times: Even though it scares me to even THINK about doing THAT, I deeply and completely love and accept myself anyway; I'm still a good person, doing the best I can, and I deserve love, happiness and success.
Tap through all the other points:
- that scares me
- I don't really want to do it because...
- What scares me about doing that is...
- What may happen if I do that is ...
- What if I get it wrong?
- What if I get hurt?
- What if I get rejected?
- What if they laugh at me?
- What if I look silly?
- Well .. so what if all that happens?
- I'll still be a good person doing the best I can
- All my resistance to doing this
- All my resistance to being more
- All my resistance to having more
- All the reaons I don't want to do that
- I forgive myself anyway
- And I wonder what it'll take for me to get excited about doing that?
- What if it works?
- What if it takes me a step closer to my dreams?
- What if it unlocks more doors?
- What if it's only the beginning of MANY opportunities opening?
- I wonder if I could allow myself to get excited about that?
- Or maybe I can be scared and do it anyway!
- Either way, whether I do it now or do it tomorrow or next week, I still love and accept myself
- Because I'm a good person, I'm doing the best I can, and I deserve love, happiness and success!
WHERE ARE YOU LOOKING AND WHAT ARE YOU FOCUSSING ON?
Many people spend vast amounts of time, money and energy on resolving THE PAST
• therapy to overcome past trauma, heartache and pain
• analysing (to death!) why this business failed or that relationship didn’t last
• re-playing painful conversations in their heads over and over and over again – always ending the same way
I think that exploring and learning from the past is an important part of moving forward because most of our programming comes from the past and I fully support these simple steps:
• go back there
• resolve it
• change the programming
• move on.
And of course, EFT is a very powerful tool in each of these steps!
Fewer people seem to spend any significant time on exploring life NOW with pertinent questions:
• How is your life as a man, woman, manager, father, daughter, partner working NOW?
• Are you keeping my promises and if not, what’s really going on?
• How is your health NOW and what can you do to improve it?
• How happy are you NOW and what are you doing to get happier?
• How are you spending your time and what needs to change to bring about more balance?
These questions are invaluable and signs of awareness and curiosity, which are both important elements of really engaging life and starting to access the power within YOU to change.
However, even fewer people seem to spend any significant time on PURPOSELY and CONSCIOUSLY creating the future that they claim they want.
• Do you have a vision for your life, somewhere you’d like to be, things you’d like to experience?
• How much time do you actually spend living there (in our imagination) and how much time do you spend arguing for your limitations and why that can never happen to you?
• When was the last time you took some action towards it?
• How much do you believe that you have the power to create what you desire rather than being a victim that life just happens to?
IN CONCLUSION
I choose to believe that the NOW I experience is not based on some random outside power, fate, destiny or luck.
It is my own creation, through the magic that is the universe – every little bit of it.
That belief empowers me and inspires me to spend time daily making sure that I do what I need to do to get what and where I want to get:
1. Have perfect CLARITY about exactly what I want in my life
2. BELIEVE that it is not only possible, but inevitable
3. Take ACTION (any action!)
What if everything was connected?
What if you were a creator?
What if your thoughts turned into things?
What if your thoughts, imagination and feelings combined into phenomenally powerful forces of creation?
What if God only wanted for you what YOU wanted for you?
What if you did have a choice?
What if you CREATED life rather than life happening TO YOU?
What if you were powerful beyond your wildest dreams?
What if, indeed…
Tap-tap!
If you want to know more, learn more, discover more and ccreate more, visit moneymakingmoves.net
Best wishes
Bennie Naude
http//moneymakingmoves.net
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