EFT can be done almost anywhere. Though
I don't necessarily recommend it while driving, I must admit that I did it
today. I drove my 91 year old mother and her dear friend “Irene” to a casino
this morning. Irene sat in front with me. She asked if I had had a
bone density test, admitting that she was afraid to get one. I asked her
why, and she replied that it was like an MRI, and she felt claustrophobic when
she was in such close quarters. I told her that EFT could probably help her
with her claustrophobia, and if she wanted, we could clear it before we got to
the casino. Irene was game.
I asked her if she could
remember a really bad experience when she felt closed in. She related that
when she was eleven years old, she went into some very small caves with her
mother, grandmother and aunt. Her grandmother had to turn back because she felt
so panicky. Irene said that, just like her grandmother, she felt trapped
and panicky. I asked her to imagine being in the cave now. Then I asked, What
is the intensity level that you feel right now when you think about being in
that cave?" She said it was a “7” (and this was 70 years after
the incident).
I had my car on cruise control at
about 65 miles an hour. We were past the rush hour traffic. I had done EFT with
Irene a couple of years ago, so I didn’t have to explain how it works, I just
told her what to say, and reminded her where to tap. I asked her if her
experience in the cave was a video, how long would it be? She said only around
10 minutes. I asked her to come up with a title of that video that
would make her laugh, and she came up with “Scared Stiff”. I also reminded her
that she could add cuss words if she wished, and it felt right to her.
Her set-up phrases were, “Even
though:
- I have uncomfortable feelings when I
think about going to that cave, I deeply and completely love and accept myself
- I still feel scared and panicky when
I think about going in that cave
- I feel surprised that I still feel
stuff around being in that cave…
We did one round of tapping using
“Scared Stiff” as her reminder phrase. I also encouraged her to inhale and exhale with each
point that she tapped on her body — working to get it out of her energy system.
After only one round, her intensity level dropped from “7”
to “4”.
On her second round, she got to the point
under her eye and she blurted out “Scared Shitless”. We both cracked up, so she
used “Scared Shitless” as her new reminder phrase. That brought her intensity
down to a “2”. I asked her how she was feeling about getting an MRI, and she answered,
"Not bad at all."
So, I encouraged her to do one last
round, without set-up phrases, and tapping in the positive. Some of the phrases
she used:
- I
am whole and complete
- I
am glad that I’ve let go of my fear of being in tight places
- I am safe
- I
am safe—even in tight places
- I
am safe wherever I am
- I
am safe in the MRI
After the third round, I reminded
her that when we started her intensity level around being in the cave
was a “7”, then dropped to a “4”, and then a “2”. "What is it
now?" I asked. She reported that there was nothing there.
Then I asked about her fear of feeling claustrophobic while in the MRI. With
a growing sense of wonder, she replied, “I don’t have any. There is
nothing there.”
She said she wouldn’t be able to tap
in the MRI machine because there wasn’t enough room. I told her she could just
imagine tapping her points, and that should work.
We were able to clear 70 years of
fear of being in tight spots in just 20 minutes while traveling down the
freeway. EFT is amazing!!!